Are you comfortable in your stillness? According to research, the average phone user checks emails, social media, and their texts before even getting out of bed in the morning. Our brains have grown accustomed to a constant feed of news, information, ideas, opinions, and educational resources. These things in and of themselves are not wrong, but if unchecked, they impede on our ability to be present with ourselves and God.
Consider it like this: we only possess a limited capacity in a day. If that capacity has developed habits which fill, distract, and entertain us, without connecting, steadying, and grounding us in the Lord, weโre filling our minds with things that will just pass away. They arenโt the one thing we were designed to commune with: Godโs presence.
โBe still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!โ (Psalm 46:10)
ย Our loud world
Playlists, podcasts, sermons, audiobooks, youtube videosโฆthe list continues of all the forms of media we have access to at the touch of our fingers. Without much thought, we can quickly tune into other ideas, songs, and thoughts. This alone is not inherently bad or โwrongโ. But if we are not intentional, we can become used to filling all of our free or bored moments with noise. In doing this, we are less likely to connect to ourselves or hear from the Lord. What we choose to think upon is incredibly influential to our lives.
โThe process of thinking and choosing is the most powerful thing in the universe after God, and it is a phenomenal gift from God to be treasured and used properly.โ Dr. Caroline Leaf, Switch On Your Brain: The Key to Peak Happiness, Thinking, and Health.ย
God gifts us free will to engage with what we choose in our life. In an increasingly loud world, it is vital that we hone our thoughts into a stillness with the Lord where the source of our entire lives is invigorated and transformed.
โYou keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.โ (Isaiah 26:3)
Distractions rob us
The enemy loves when our minds are distracted from God. When we arenโt centered on what the Lord is saying and doing in our lives, little by little, we drift off course. Distraction doesnโt happen all at once. It begins in our small, daily habits. Itโs in the battle for our minds, something only we have a say in what they entertain. Think of it this way: Letโs say youโre preparing to make a big change in your life (move states, jobs, or even out of the country) and you hear a promise from the Lord about this change. If you are not intentional, you can put that promise away, forgetting to stand on it, and instead being distracted by all of the outward circumstances (difficulty, doubt, struggles, etc). Itโs not that you didnโt believe Godโs promise to you, but you entertained the wrong thing.
Signs you may be uncomfortable in your stillness
- youโre avoiding rest, quiet time, or decompressing without a phone, TV, book, or form of entertainment
- youโre spending time with God, but fill it with prayer, journaling, or worship (โdoingโ instead of โbeingโ)
- in free moments, you instinctively reach for your phone or scroll mindlessly
There is no shame if these resonate with you. We cannot change the patterns of familiarity in our minds without becoming aware and curiousโnot criticalโtoward them. Iโve had seasons of life where Iโve noticed Iโm constantly reaching for a social media app in my downtime. Once I noticed this habit, I could have become harsh or judgmental toward myself for this behavior. Instead, I engaged with Holy Spirit, asking God to reveal to me why this pattern developed. From here, I was able to own my choice to develop this habit, and work to develop a different habit: one that lessens my anxiety
Itโs not that you arenโt making space or time to sit with the Lord, but youโre filling that space with โdoingโ instead of merely โbeingโ with God. Not striving to get things done, pray the right things, journal enough, or sing the right songs, but simply abiding with your Father.
In your stillness
When we are accustomed to noise, it can feel difficult to quiet our minds before the Lord. Just as we grew used to noise, we can teach our bodies and spirits to become comfortable in silence.
In The Silence by Jason Upton explores what the quiet is likeโฆitโs where we make space to encounter the fire of God:
โIn the silence
You are speaking
In the quiet I can feel the fire
And itโs burning, burning deeply
Burning all that it is
That you desire to be silent, in meโ
This isnโt to say that God isnโt speaking when itโs loud. But our minds are much less likely to listenโto hearโwhat He has to say when weโre tuned into the noise. If youโre struggling to connect and โbeโ with God, take a minute to evaluate what your daily life looks like. How much time and space do you have to be still? If your free moments, like driving to work, or doing household chores, what have you allowed your ears to tune into? I want to challenge you: make an effort with yourself to turn down the noise. Escape into the life-giving presence of Jesus, He is a well that never runs dry.
I encourage you to read Psalm 23 aloud to yourself.
Psalm 23
Theย Lordย is myย shepherd; I shall notย want.
2ย ย ย ย ย He makes me lie down in greenย pastures.
He leads me beside still waters.[a]
3ย ย ย ย ย Heย restores my soul.
Heย leads me inย paths of righteousness[b]
ย ย ย ย for hisย nameโs sake.
4ย Even though Iย walk through the valley ofย the shadow of death,[c]
ย ย ย ย I willย fear no evil,
forย you are with me;
ย ย ย ย yourย rod and your staff,
ย ย ย ย they comfort me.
5ย Youย prepare a table before me
inย the presence of my enemies;
youย anoint my head with oil;
myย cup overflows.
6ย Surely[d]ย goodness and mercy[e]ย shall follow me
all the days of my life,
and I shallย dwell[f]ย in the house of theย Lord
forever.[g]
Notice all of the โdoingโ that God enacts in this passage: he leads the psalmist beside still waters, he makes him lie down in green pastures, and he leads him to paths of righteousness. God is literally our shepherd, leading us with His voice. This voice is heard in your stillness. Allowing His presence to be our core focus, the radio station we tune into, we position ourselves for the life He has designed for us.


